Saturday, October 8, 2011

Difference between between Love Marriage & Arrange Marriage

Somebody asked what is the difference between Love Marriage and Arrange Marriage.. 

There might be end number of explanations for this..

But suddenly some thoughsts came to my mind and I answered:

In love marriage , we love to compromise and In arrange marriage , we are forced to compromise 

As Oscar Wild rightly said.. a man can be happy with any woman till the time he doesnt fall in love with her.. 

There are people who says that its not like that .. Both needs to understand and relationship would be sustained...

But just think ..that how many times you compromised ( on saveral aspects of life ) to please your HALF  (beloved ) ....

So either of them has to compromise to make it sustainable.. and that is the reason love marriage finds a rough road.. because both individuals love their HALF ( beloved ) but still they want their share of Independence ..their share of freedom...their time for being with their own self...

But yes.. if either of them understands this... and do compromise ( not in the negative sense ) then the pain of loosing something ( by doing compromise ) will be reduced by knowing that their HALF ( beloved ) loves him or her so much  

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